Mindfulness

What is mindfulness?

Mindfulness is a way of paying attention to the present moment, using techniques like meditation, breathing and yoga. It helps us become more aware of our thoughts and feelings so that, instead of being overwhelmed by them, we’re better able to manage them.

How can mindfulness help?

Mindfulness can be used as a tool to manage your wellbeing and mental health. Some people call mental health ‘emotional health’ or ‘wellbeing’. We all have times when we feel down, stressed or frightened; most of the time those feelings pass, but sometimes they develop into a more serious problem, and this could happen to any one of us. It’s important to maintain your mental health, but being mentally healthy doesn’t just mean that you don’t have a mental health problem. With good mental health, you can:

  • Make the most of your potential
  • Cope with life
  • Play a full part in your family, workplace, community and among friends

Below is a video explaining what mindfulness is and how you can begin to practice being more mindful in your day-to-day life.

Research has suggested benefits of mindfulness to health and wellbeing, with results showing positive effects on several aspects of whole-person health, including the mind, the brain, the body, and behaviour, as well as a person’s relationships with others.

Examples of Mindfulness

One-minute mindfulness

Mindfulness can be used in your everyday life and doesn’t have to take a lot of effort or time. You can practise mindfulness in just one minute!

Below are a few examples of one-minute mindfulness practices that you can try yourself anywhere and at any time that suits you.

Breathing

Take a minute to observe your breathing. Breathe in and out as you normally would: notice the time between each inhalation and exhalation; notice your lungs expanding. When your mind wanders, gently bring your attention back to your breath.

Body scan

It can often feel like we’re an observer of our own body caught up in our heads. Spend your one mindful minute bringing awareness to your body and your body’s sensations. Close your eyes and begin scanning your body. Start with your feet, and then slowly bring your awareness upwards in your body until you reach your hands. What sensations do you feel? Heaviness in the legs? Strain in the back? Perhaps no sensations at all. Now move your focus out from the hands and become aware of your environment and the space all around you.

Mindful walking

Mindful walking is something you can practise at any time as you go about your day. It’s good to try it slowly at first, but once you’re used to it, you can practise it at any pace – even when you’re rushing. Walk slowly: become aware of the sensations in the soles of your feet as they make contact with the floor, and any sensations in the muscles of the legs. You don’t have to look down at your feet. When your mind wanders, use the contact of the feet on the floor as an anchor to bring you back into the present moment. Just take a minute to focus on the sensations generated by walking.

Mindful listening

By taking this time out to tune in to your environment and listen to what it tells you, it will help you to bring mindfulness into the rest of your life – bringing your awareness as you move through the day. Take a minute to listen to the sounds in your environment. You don’t need to try and determine the origin or type of sounds you hear, just listen and absorb the experience of their quality and how it resonates with you. If you recognise a sound then label it and move on, allowing your ears to catch new sounds.

Recognising Thoughts.

The outside world can affect us and so our reactions to different situations, environments, social situations can be looked at using the model below.

We all have emotions (how we feel), thoughts (what we say to ourselves), bodily sensations (physical symptoms or feelings) and behaviours (our actions). It is important to understand that each of these interact and have an affect on each other. Have a look at the example below.

What your young person says to themself is called “self-talk”.

It is important for a young person to identify their self-talk, because persistent negative self-talk can lead to negative feelings which can lead to negative behaviour as shown earlier. Teaching young people that we can manage our own self-talk, can help them to control unhelpful thoughts.

Sometimes it can be difficult to understand the difference between a thought and a feeling. For example, the person may say their thought is “I’m scared” (which is actually a feeling) versus “that noise is a burglar trying to break in” (which is a real thought). It is important to expose the thoughts underneath the feelings!

Try asking questions like “what is making you scared? What do you think might be going on?”; this can help them (and you) identify the thought processes that are causing and maintaining the worry.

Helpful and Unhelpful Thoughts

It can be beneficial to explain that there are helpful and unhelpful thoughts. Sometimes it can be useful to use a Traffic Light system to discuss our thoughts.

Once the young person can identify unhelpful or ‘red’ thoughts it may be useful to introduce Thought Challenging as often our unhelpful thoughts can be untrue or an exaggeration.

Some examples of Thought Challenging Questions could be.

  • Am I exaggerating?
  • Is this true?
  • Am I making this out to be worse than it is?
  • Is this thought helpful?
  • Is this thought rational?

Feeling Anxious

We all experience anxious feelings now and then. It’s a normal response to the daily pressures we encounter, and in some situations can even give us the boost we need to perform to the best of our abilities.

However, when anxious feelings persist and stop us from doing things we enjoy or need to do as part of our daily lives, some extra support is needed.

There are different signs of persistent anxious feelings, emotional and physical such as:

  • Restlessness and inability to concentrate in class
  • Headaches or stomach aches
  • Tiredness
  • Irritability
  • Feeling sad or withdrawn
  • Panic attacks

Identifying the symptoms

Identifying the symptoms is one of the first steps in learning how to manage persistent anxious feelings.

Physical symptoms – Activity. Start thinking about what physical symptoms you experience. You could draw a gingerbread person and label the physical feelings you experience.

Emotional and Physical symptoms- Thinking about the Fight or Flight response can also help in understanding anxious feelings. The below video explains what the fight/flight response is and how it relates to feeling anxious.

Coping Strategies

When we are feeling anxious, having different coping strategies can help us manage these feelings.

  • Take a time-out & do something else. Stepping back from the problem can help you clear your head!
  • Go for a walk, listen to music,
  • Exercise or do some physical activity daily to help you feel good & maintain your health
  • Try and spend time in nature/outdoors
  • Grounding techniques
  • Breathing techniques